People are who they are

That is the simple truth of it all--people are who they are.  Sure some people can be influenced by  others but at their core, they are who they are. And who they are will eventually come out. Once they show you who they really are, know that you can't change them back to who you thought they were. I watch everyday as people around me put on their "public " face or their "work" face or their "politically correct" face. Some people should try to spend a day without putting on any face at all. But I guess for some that is just too hard to do.