Such is Life

Hormones. Those little devils that seem to make womens' lives hell sometimes. Not to mention the fact that a large sum of the female population pumps their bodies with extra hormones on a daily/weekly/monthly basis to take control of their lives and "plan" their entrance to mommyhood. And men wonder why women can be so emotional at times. At least we have a legitimate reason. There is nothing we can do about it. We were born that way. So why is it some men seem to suffer the same symptoms? What is their excuse? Is there some estrogen virus floating in the air? Just one of the things I ponder at times.

Who ever invented Mondays?

Mondays. If you work a 5 day work week (or are supposed to but always seem to be working all hours of every day) then Mondays might not be your favorite day all the time. Today was such a Monday. At least it's over.....well almost. Tuesday will be a great day. 

love

Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, alway hopes, always perseveres.

What the world really needs right now is more love. Practice love today. You will see the difference it makes in your life.

Year of Defining Decisions

So my life has been all over the place the last couple of weeks. I guess 2009 is going to be the "Year of Defining Decisions." And boy do I have some serious decisions to make. I've never been at such a crossroad before. I've had to make a lot of tough decisions in my life, don't get me wrong, but never have I stared down the multiple roads I could take the moment I hit the crossroad. I'm usually making the decisions on how to deal with the consequences of the path I had already taken without even considering the alternatives.  Instead of freaking out and worrying about what I am going to do, I am going to accept this blessing. I'm blessed to realize that I'm at a point in my life where I can do anything I want to do and it's all up to me. I'm blessed that I know things sometimes have to get worse before they get better and you have to look past the current situation to what is waiting for you on the other side. I'm blessed to have the wisdom I've gained from all of the other decisions I have made in my life good or bad. And I'm blessed to know that no matter what path I take, God will be there walking with me. 

My President is Black...

Today is a day that will be remembered and reflected upon throughout history. We are all witness to the day when the world moved in a new direction. Watching the first black (yes he is mixed like me but in the eyes of society, black and proud to be) President address the nation brought chills to my bones. I could feel the pain, struggle and sacrifice of the many people who gave their lives fighting, praying and hoping to one day witness such a remarkable event. To think that President Obama is sleeping tonight in the most famous home ever built by slaves. I have hope for the future. I am prepared to do MY part in the change taking place. Yes WE can. It's time to step up, take responsibility and do YOUR part. We are all in this together.

He is listening

I've been praying a lot lately seeking guidance in a few areas in my life. Today that guidance ended up in my junk email folder. I never check it. I usually just empty it and keep it moving, but something today told me to look at those emails. And there sitting waiting for me was an answer.  Technology is not always certain (hence the non junk email ending up in my junk email folder) but one thing is certain- He is listening is always listening. It is up to you to listen back and pay attention when He answers. 

Rebuild

Sometimes you have to wipe the slate completely clean and start over. No sense in trying to remodel what was built on a broken foundation. You will waste your time and efforts. Sometimes you have to start again with a new solid foundation and slowly build it the right way. 

Chill with the Zebras

It's a fact stress makes people sick. Stress makes lives difficult and people miserable. Why do we as Americans keep building a culture that increases the stress in all of our lives? Our bodies react to stress to avoid danger. The only time other living things are stressed is when they are running for their lives so they don't get eaten by some lion chasing them. Once the lion is gone, they go back to chill mode. Why is it we can't? We sit and think about the lion chasing us even after the lion is long gone or worry about the next lion that just might happen to appear. We lay in bed thinking about lions instead of sleeping. We go about our lives finding ways to breed more and more lions and wonder why we can't get rid of them. Well I am making sure that my life has a lion-free zone that I visit on a daily basis and chill with the zebras. 

Ok Now I'm Ready

So it's the 12 day of January and I am not fully into the 2009 routine I had planned. My birthday being a week after New Year's kinda makes the first week and a half of each year pretty busy, out of routine and full of celebrations. Now back to everyday life and implementing the resolutions I have for this year. Time to get back on the grind and wipe out any laziness that I may feel from doing too much these last 2 weeks. Sunday was my day of rest. Today- as hard as it was to get out of bed this morning- is my day to step it up a notch.

Thank Goodness for Real Friends

As my birthday week wraps up I am really looking forward to the rest - a sign of age I guess.  This week has been full of ups, downs and unexpected in every area of my life. The one thing I was definitely reminded of this week is how blessed I am to have real friends. I thank God for my friend and love them all new and old. I don't know what I would do without them. On another note, I realize this will be a roller coaster ride of a year. But I look forward too it and know that I will come out on top at the end.

21....again

The 7th day of the year is the best day of the year.  You would think being born on the 7th day of the year would bring me a lot of luck. It hasn't, but I have gained a lot of wisdom and I would choose wisdom over luck any day. Since this is the first day of the next year of my life I've decided to have a birthday resolution as well. This one is simple. Do things that increase the joy and happiness in my life. That is what 21 the second time around is all about. Funny thing is when I was 21 the first time I was so excited to get carded because I was finally legal. Now, it's fun to get carded cause I still look like I could be underage- that itself is a blessing. 

The Unexpected

Life sure has a way of throwing you curve balls. Just when you think you have everything all figured out...BAM! It hits you. Sometimes good, sometimes bad. I've been hit with both at once. At least I'm balanced I guess. Looking at things through half full lenses this year. I must say with all these challenges I will never be bored. But I'm up for it. Game on. I have some major decisions to make. However, in round 2, these decisions won't be taken lightly.

Monday Blues.

The first Monday of the new year. I had to drag myself into work this morning from lack of sleep last night. Not a good start to the week right. I know. I almost got depressed about the pending birthday coming up in 2 days, but then I realized it's just 21 the second time around. New beginnings. Slowly throughout the morning I have been getting back on track and my excitement about the new year is building. The temptation to slack is there, but I refuse. This year will be a big deal in many lives. I'm making sure mine is one of them.

New Beginnings

New Year. Fresh Start. Isn't life beautiful.  

2009 is going to be known in history as the Year of Change.  This is the year my resolutions will stick. I'm going to hang them on the wall next to my bed so they are in my mind every morning when I wake and every night before I go to sleep.

Resolutions for-

My mind: Incorporate meditation and yoga into my daily routine

My body: Exercise a minimum of 4 times a week, eat clean as much as I can and drink lots of water EVERY DAY.

My soul: Pray everyday, study the bible, consistently make it to Church for fellowship. Spend more time with the friends that nurture my soul.

My family: Spend more quality time with my children with the TV and computer OFF.

My future: Work on becoming debt free, build up that emergency fund, invest smart, grow my business...and finally finish my book.

Now 6 more days until my birthday. 21 the second time around is sure to be interesting. :)